We headed down to Exeter/ the area this weekend to look for a house to rent. A little update is that our sister and brother-in-law have gotten jobs that are going to start the same time as my husbands and so we are looking to rent a big 4/5 bedroom house together.
we thought it would be fairly easy, find a big house, put down the deposit and rent it.
However, it is turning out not that easy. First off, about half (if not more) of the big houses listed for rent in Exeter/the area do not accept sharers of any kind. What a shame! with the world the way it is now and how hard it is to find places to live families working together to live and share the stresses of life is becoming more essential. Yet another hurdle to get over.
So out of a list of 7 houses we were able to see 3 of them. The first house we saw was on Roydans Estate. I couldn't recommend this area of Exeter anymore. We instantly fell in love with it. There is a train station, local parks, community centre (which runs an array of children/work out/ church/community groups), there is a shopping complex across the busy main road that has a big superstore (tesco), pet shops, furniture stores, fast-food (pizza hut/KFC!). We loved the house that we saw and put our referencing offer in straight away. Ex of Exeter Estate agents were absolutely brilliant. We had a guy named Ian show us around the house and he was very personable, honest and friendly. Unfortunately another family also loved our "most amazing house ever" find and we were passed over for their less complicated situation. This was totally understandable, but wow did it feel like a kick to our guts! We had been watching that house when it was listed as more expensive, then the week we went down to look at houses it dropped in price to our spend range, then they didn't have space to show us and then a space opened up. The lay out couldn't have been more perfect to host our families, it was set up so beautifully for our families... we even thought because the family that lived there had relocated to another country that they would sympathise with our story and go for us... hahah but sadly the world doesn't work that way.
We looked at two other properties (one right outside exeter near Ide) but even though it said it was only 3-4 miles from exeter it felt AGES away and there wasn't really anything happening there.... I can't see that working.
THEN we went down to Dawlish and WHAT A PLEASANT SURPRISE. The town/community felt family friendly, beautiful and possible. The train station is LITERALLY on the sea, there are loads of little coffee shops, tea rooms, fish and chips and small quirky shops... I liked it... I liked it more than I thought. They have such a beautiful little brooke that runs through the centre of the downtown and there are lights set up, a little duck sanctuary, ice cream shops a little community theatre! The vibe was definitely more exciting and liveable than I thought it would be. The house we saw there would work... but it felt very tired and there were a few things that just made it feel not right.
We found out while we were sitting on the grassy green in Dawlish that we didn't get accepted on our first house of choice and it did put a bit of a sour perspective on things. I seriously almost cried. I just want a home. Something we all could be proud of and happy in and settled in. We were so sure the Roydan Estate house was THE ONE!
We spend the 5 hour drive back to Essex just talking and talking and talking this move to death! What will we do now. We only have 4 more weeks. Maybe living together won't be as easy as we thought! why is it so hard to find a house for us to live in? how long can we go on with out a plan? We talked it over loads with my husbands parents. They have lots of wise experience moving and that helped to calm our nerves and emotions.
After talking with them we decided that we really need to priorities my husband and brother in laws jobs and being in a place that will make them settling into their work as smooth as possible. And also making sure that we stick to our guns and get a home that will have the space we need.
When we got back to Colchester, Essex we sat on our couch after wrestling our two babies to bed, we were exhausted. Our creativity and fight for making this move fun and exciting was at an all time low. But some how we managed to get out our phones, make a new list of houses we maybe could see, write a list of ideal characters our rental property would have and a list of things we would compromise on.
We took deep breaths, we prayed again and we planned our next trip to Exeter sometime next week or the week after. Money is running out, time is running short..... wow moving has a way a stretching us!
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